If you have seen happy couples, you might have noticed one thing
about them, and that’s posting less on social media about their
relationships. Social media can be annoying at times and it’s especially
when you see couples bragging about their relationship and make their
personal lives public. It’s even more annoying when it’s your best
buddies and you have to deal with their posts that they make every other
day. via
But do you think love needs justification or some kind of online
certification? I have seen a lot of happy couples who just stay away
from social media and live their lives to fullest. ‘OMG, that’s so us,
relationship quotes, sharing your pictures with your partner’, you won’t
see this kind of post from a person who is truly happy with their
relationship.
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Top reasons why happy couples post less about their relationships on social media. Let’s take a look!
1. It’s a private matter
Couples always enjoyed the sort of privacy before social media
revolution but today, it has become difficult. Happy couples know about
having a good time and they don’t believe in showing others that they
are having a good time. They enjoy each others time because they
actually like being together and it’s not needed at all to show this off
on social media. 2. Because social media is all about faking up
Have you seen couples posting their sad photos or when they are not
having fun, or having a fight? People think that if you post the
pictures of happy times, others will think that you are happy in your
relationship. You are convincing others to convince yourself that you
are happy. 3. Happy times always makes you tend to forget to take photos
If you can recall the happiest moments of your life, it’s always the
moments that aren’t captured on camera. Happy times and presence of
genuine joy, we often tend to forget to take photos. And for happy
couples, taking photos is always considered as the last thing. 4. Telling people about your relationship will do nothing
The sign of a good relationship is an argument. If there is no
argument in a relationship, it either means you both aren’t matured or
don’t care enough. Making online posts after a small fight will do no
good, you should talk to each other instead. 5. Posting too much implies that you are attention seeker
Happy couples know the difference between having a good time and
showing that you are having a good time. Posting too much only means
that you need likes and you are an attention seeker. Happy couples don’t need to prove how happy they are
Genuinely happy couples don’t have to prove anything to the world.
Most couples who post about their relationships always try to prove
something or to make their Ex jealous or to prove others that ‘OMG, they
are so happy’. 7. The social media statistics
According to a study, people who spend less time on social media are happier than those who spend most of their time online. 8. And this funny reason
I have seen a lot of guys who post their private pictures and it only
implies that they are trying to prove that even they can have a
girlfriend. It seems like even they don’t believe that they can have a
girl. 9. Real thing that matters is being happy
You’ll get nothing from posting the evidence of how happy you are.
The joy is to be found in being together, not in posting about being
together. 10. Couples who post a lot about their relationships tend to be insecure
A survey was done on more than 100 couples. The researchers from
Northwestern University found those who posted more frequently on social
media about their partner actually feel insecure in their
relationships. Conclusion:
Even unhappy couples don’t post much on social media and there are
also some happy couples, who post their photos on a regular basis.
However, the findings from professionals and research prove that a
majority of couples who brag about their relationships online aren’t
really that happy in reality.
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